Monday, July 19, 2021

THE Best Gift

My husband and I celebrated our 50th Wedding Anniversary last December. Other than my youngest son and his wife not being able to make it in from California because of Covid, it was a perfect celebration. (They joined us via Facetime. Yay technology!) My husband and I only wanted to celebrate with our kids and their families. My son and his girlfriend hosted in their new house. It was perfect.

The gift that the kids gave us was the best gift ever. They contacted friends and family and asked them to write letters about what we meant in their lives. There are pages and pages of memories and things that happened that we didn't realize meant so much to people. They were the kinds of things that people never hear...the kinds of things that people say after you die, or not at all. It was so special. I told my kids that if they were trillionaires, they couldn't have given us a better gift.

I think it's so sad that we never say these things to one another. I challenge all of you...and let the people in your life know what they mean to you. Tomorrow is never promised and everyone deserves this special gift. Do it now. You won't regret it.

Love, Paula

Monday, July 12, 2021


When I was in college, I took a literature class. The professor was interesting and taught concepts that were new to me...different. She explained that GOOD literature has many levels so it could reach many people at their specific level of understanding at that time. She was in favor of re-reading books because your understanding changes as you grow. She talked in depth about metaphors and challenged us to look for metaphores in our daily lives.

Shortly after that we were invited to a birthday party at my sister-in-law's. Let me set the stage: They lived in a typical ranch house BUT they had a finished basement with a family room and a dining room in it. The bathrooms however, were on the main floor.

My brother-in-law's family were all HIGHLY educated. They were very warm, friendly people, but you got the feeling of intellectual superiority...we were beneath them.

As the party was going on, individuals would go upstairs to use the bathroom. No big deal. BUT when I finally went up, ALL of my brother-in-law's family were in the living room and ALL of our family was still in the basement. I laughed out loud and no one knew why. Talk about metophors in life...we WERE beneath them!!!

I forgot all about that until recently. I'm so glad to have remembered that concept. I'm starting to see the metaphors in my life again. It truly makes life more interesting. I challenge you...and look for the metaphors in YOUR life. It helps you go through life more consciously...and it's fun!

Love, Paula

Tuesday, March 16, 2021

NOW!!! Not later.

My husband's favorite mantra of late is: "If you want to do something, do it! Don't put it off."

In early February my husband said we should invite this very dear friend of ours to dinner sometime. Reminding him of his mantra, I said, "Well, let's call her now and set it up." We called, set the date and time, and met her for dinner on February 8th. At that dinner she said she'd like to make a Reiki appointment sometime soon. I got out my calender and we set up an appointment that night for February 17th. She passed away very unexpectedly on Marth 11th. Although I'm going to miss her terribly, I can take comfort in the fact that we didn't just TALK about getting together, we actually DID get together. We don't have to live with regret.

You remember the saying, "Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today."? I always equated that to work. But it really isn't just about work, it's about everything...because we never know what tomorrow may bring.

Love, Paula